Dust and Diamonds, “Same Invitation”
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SERIES: Dust and Diamonds
TITLE: Part 2 - “Same Invitation”
SPEAKER: Pastor CJ Cody
Scriptures—
Matthew 19:16-30; Luke 5:1-11; Malachi 3:10; Psalm 103:14
Summary—
Pastor CJ shared a message on what it truly means to surrender everything to follow Christ, comparing the responses of the rich young ruler and Peter to Jesus’ invitation. He reminded us that following God often means letting go of earthly possessions, comforts, and attachments that can hold us back. The message focused on three key practices: living generously, gaining a deeper revelation of God’s character, and remembering our humble beginning as dust. This week’s message challenges us to examine our hearts and choose faith-filled obedience over the grief of holding on to what we cannot keep.
Key Takeaways—
God's invitation to follow Him is the same for everyone, but our responses differ
There are two types of people: "head droppers" (those who refuse in grief) and "net droppers" (those who obey in faith)
Practicing generosity in small ways prepares us for bigger acts of surrender
True revelation of God's character follows obedience
Remembering we are dust helps maintain proper perspective and reliance on God
Giving is about the heart's condition, not the amount
Discussion Questions—
How do you personally interpret Jesus' invitation to “leave everything and follow me,” and what might that look like in your life today?
How does the story of the rich young man resonate with modern struggles between faith and materialism?
In what areas of your life do you find it most difficult to “drop your net” and fully surrender to God’s will?
In what ways do you find yourself being a “head dropper” versus a “net dropper” when faced with challenging spiritual decisions?
How might regular giving and generosity lead to a deeper revelation of God’s character in your life?
How does the concept of “remembering we are dust” impact your perspective on material possessions and earthly success?
How does the idea that “God always requires more than we think but gives more than we expect” challenge or encourage your faith?
Practical Application—
This week, identify one area where God might be calling you to "drop your net." Commit to taking a step of faith in that area.
Set aside time for personal reflection on your giving habits. Are there any changes you feel led to make?
Practice intentional giving this week, whether it's your time, talents, or resources. Start small if needed, but be consistent.
Closing Prayer—
Close your session by thanking God for His invitation to follow Him. Ask for His strength and guidance to be "net droppers" in your daily lives.
