Light Has Found Us, “Anchored in the Dark”
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SERIES: Light Has Found Us
TITLE: Part 1 - Anchored in the Dark
SPEAKER: Pastor CJ Cody
Scriptures—
Matthew 1:18-25; Hebrews 6:19
Summary—
Pastor CJ begins the season of Advent by using Joseph’s story to show that Advent reflects the Christian journey of waiting for God’s promises in dark seasons. He emphasizes that we need to stay anchored not by worldly information but by revelation from God. Joseph’s tension between law and love illustrates how obedience to God’s call—especially when it defies logic—positions us to see His promises fulfilled. Pastor CJ highlights that hope is the soul’s anchor, but hope demands faith, and faith comes from hearing God’s word.
Key Takeaways—
Advent reflects the Christian journey of waiting for God’s glory, not just a seasonal celebration.
In dark seasons, we stay anchored by God’s word, which produces faith and hope.
Joseph’s choice between law and love shows the power of obeying God even when circumstances disagree.
The progression of anchoring: God’s word → faith → hope → an anchored soul.
God calls His people to stand firm in His word, not to live in fear—worship is our response even before deliverance.
Acting on information instead of revelation can derail God’s promises, so we boldly seek Him for clarity.
Discussion Questions—
Where do you feel tension between obeying God’s commands and extending love, and how do you navigate it?
What does being “anchored in the dark” look like in your life when God’s promises feel distant?
When has God asked you to obey Him despite your natural feelings resisting?
How does seeking revelation from God—rather than information from people—influence your decisions?
What specific word from God is currently anchoring your soul as you wait for His promises?
Joseph could have aborted the promise by moving on bad information. What promises in your life might you be at risk of aborting by trusting what you see rather than what God said?
Practical Application—
Spend focused time in prayer asking God for a specific word for your situation, write it down, and share it with someone for accountability.
Intentionally worship God—through music, prayer, and gratitude—and journal how it shifts your perspective.
Identify what the circumstances are saying, compare it with what God has revealed, and commit to standing on God's revelation.
Closing Prayer—
Close your session by praying this prayer: "God, we choose to be anchored in Your word. We will not be moved by what we see, but by what You've said. Give us faith to stand, hope to endure, and love to obey. In Jesus' name, Amen."
